Just a friendly reminder that signups for the Holiday Card Swap end TOMORROW at 8PM EST. I’ve gotten an amazing response so far from bloggers and readers alike all over the world [0ver 70 people and counting!!!] and spent my entire Saturday night gocco’ing my cards so I’m excited to start sending them out.
Picking our formal china came pretty easy to Chad and I….we knew we didn’t want something overly done, with flowers cascading over the sides and onto our coffee cups, or with tiny little butterflies all over the place. We wanted the simplest thing we could find, that would remain elegant but still be modern at the same time. In came Rosenthal’s Moon series…designed by Jasper Morrison. It’s got sexy curves, and is incredibly appealing to look at! Best of all, no frou frou designs!! Moon platinum is very similar but with a subtle platinum ring around the edges. Available at Moss and Unicahome.
[images from Unicahome]
Bella Bridesmaid is a great store that started in San Francisco, with a fabulous selection of modern bridesmaids dresses, including some of my faves like Simple Silhouettes, Melissa Sweet and Coren Moore. BB reader Amanda just let me know that she’s opened the franchised store in Madison, NJ…it’ll be nice to have all the great, simple modern dresses in one place, and so near by! Check it out.
Bella Figura, a letterpress company up in Syracuse NY, is getting ready to release their new 2008 designs [the last image is part of the new collection], and in the process are offering Brooklyn Bride readers 10% off any order through December 31! Use the code BRKPR1 to take advantage!
Here’s some fun facts about Bella Figura that I didn’t know, but love!
They are 100% wind-powered and carbon neutral.
They donate 1% of sales to environmental causes through 1% for the Planet.
They use 100% cotton, tree free paper made from recovered fibers; this paper is made exclusively for them by a 400-year-old European paper mill.
[images from Bella Figura]
“So, who asks whom?” When it comes to getting engaged, this is a common question posed to gay and lesbian couples – and one for which there isn’t one answer. When I decided I was going to propose, there was some worry in the back of my mind that I would be beaten to the punch. Personally, I think it just comes down to which partner has more self control. And that is definitely not me.
Once I figured out that I wanted to spend my life with K, I had to figure out how to ask him and what I would give him as a symbol of our engagement. While a diamond ring is a time honored and classic sign of commitment between two people, it absolutely wouldn’t work for us. I thought about buying bands and having each of us wear them on our right ring fingers and then moving them to our left at the ceremony. And I thought of simply asking him without any “props,” but I really wanted him to have something that symbolized our engagement for the rest of his life.
I thought about all this for so long that I was running out of time. And then it struck me. A watch. A good watch. One that he would wear every day. One that would last forever. One that he had been talking about getting himself for what seemed forever.
Here’s how it played out…
Last May, I planned a week-long vacation in Napa Valley under the guise of K’s birthday. He had no idea that I was planning to propose – which made it that much better. Napa has always been a special place for us. It is where we took one of our first trips together and the fact that we are both really into wine makes the location that much more
Route 1 from San Francisco to Napa is a scenic, winding drive along the coast, passing through Muir Beach and Point Reyes. There’s a particular spot on the way where we love to pull over for the most incredible view and I knew that it would be the perfect place to propose. For days leading up to the trip, I was trying to figure out a way that I would be able to mention stopping there without raising K’s suspicions in advance. Fortunately, I didn’t have to think too hard.
K remembered the spot and suggested going there on our drive. When we arrived, we got out of the car and started walking to the edge to take in the view. There, I handed K a box that I had discreetly taken from the car. I told him it was a happy vacation present and to open it. He quickly did so and was so excited about the watch I don’t think he noticed how nervous I became.
I began telling him how much I loved him, how important he was in my life and that if he really wanted to know just how much I loved him to look on the back of the watch. As he turned it over, he saw that engraved on the back between our initials was “Marry me?”
To get back to my original point on who asks whom – in the end, does it really matter? Woman to woman, man to man, man to woman – when you ask someone to marry you, you are saying I want to be with you for the rest of my life. When you say yes to someone asking you to marry them, aren’t you saying the same exact thing?